Thoughlets and experiences

Being ignored, isolated, neglected..!! The pain is heavy.. When the world is ignoring, trying to create own world, though not expecting help, but shouldn't be disturbed or displaced. How people behave is sometimes hectic to digest.

There are some kinds of loneliness that are difficult to explain. Not the loneliness of being physically alone. Not the loneliness of having no people around. It is the loneliness that arrives when the people who matter the most become distant, when conversations become rare, and when silence seems reserved only for you. Lately, I have been feeling that weight more than ever. Life has become strangely mechanical. Wake up, work, complete responsibilities, sleep, and repeat. I am grateful for my job, and in many ways I continue to grow and excel professionally. Work gives purpose, challenges, and achievements. But when the day ends and the noise fades away, reality feels different. Human beings are not built only for success. We are built for connection. There are moments when I feel like a machine that keeps running because it must. A provider. A dependable person. A shoulder for others. Sometimes it feels as though my value is measured only by what I can give, solve, or provide. Like a...

If I have a lakh with me and he sees it, still he will call me for tea — and he will pay the bill. That is friendship. If I spend for him as he asked, he immediately messages me as debt and clears it on time. True friends are those who care, help, and love in every situation. With them, there is trust and no mental stress. Whether it is borrowed money, asking for help, who pays, or even if the payment is more — all is managed with the bond we share. I have lived this experience with a few friends, and yes, they are my true ones.

  എല്ലാ വർഷവും സാധാരണ നാട്ടിൽ വന്നാൽ, കുറഞ്ഞ പക്ഷം സുബിനെയെങ്കിലും  കാണാറുണ്ട്. ഇത്തവണ, ബഹറിനിൽ നിന്നായിരുന്നില്ല, മറിച്ചു തെക്കേ ഇന്ത്യയിൽ നിന്നുമാണെന്നു മാത്രം. മാത്രവുമല്ല, അങ്ങ് അമേരിക്കയിൽ നിന്നും ആഗ്നെസും വരുന്നെന്നു പറഞ്ഞു. പക്ഷെ എണ്ണിപ്പെറുക്കി എല്ലാരേയും എത്തിക്കാൻ അത്ര എളുപ്പമല്ല, സുബിനിലാണ് എല്ലാ പ്രതീക്ഷയും. തെറ്റിയില്ല, പത്തു പേര് വന്നാൽ അത് വിജയമെന്നാണ് ഞങ്ങടെ ഒരിത്. ഞാൻ ഫാമിലിയെയും കൂട്ടി വന്നു, ഉച്ചയ്ക്ക് ഊണിനു എല്ലാരേയും വിളിച്ചെങ്കിലും ആഗ്നെസ് മാത്രമാണ് വന്നത്. എന്നാലും അത് പൊളിയായിരുന്നു, നീനയും പിള്ളേരും ഞാനും പിന്നെ ആഗ്നെസും, പിന്നെ ഓരോരുത്തരെ വിളിച്ചു, ചൂലിൽ എത്തിയെപ്പോഴേക്കും മഴ കനത്തു. കുടുംബത്തിന് തറവാട്ടിലേക്ക് (?) പോകാനുള്ളത് കൊണ്ട് സുബിനെ കാത്തു നിന്നില്ല, അവര് പോയി, അപ്പൊ തന്നെ മഴയെത്തു ഇരു ചക്രത്തിൽ സുബിനും എത്തി.  വരുമെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞ ചിലർ വന്നില്ല, ചിലരെ ഫോണിൽ വിളിച്ചു, വർഷ ഇങ്ങോട്ടു വീഡിയോ കോളും  ചെയ്തു. രോഹിത് ആയിരുന്നു താരം, ഇടവേളകളില്ലാതെ അവൻ താഥ്വികനായി! അടൂർ എസ എച് ഒ  ശ്യാം ജോലിക്കിടയിലും വന്നത് ചെറിയ ഒത്തുകൂടലിനു ചാരുതയേകി. പിന്...

The moments we share with our first friends are awesome. First friends, yes i mean it, those who studied and played together in our childhood days. Holy Angels, the real "ground" that molded us as what we are. Though we couldn't connect with all after school, the social media innovations made all possible. And we casually tried to gather in between these 25 years multiple times, 2024 GT was an amazing one. School itself changed a lot, the town Adoor totally changed, and ofcourse we too. But the bonds are something different. The evening was amazing, we talked, shared, then had the fun time, and a tea time together.

 The trip was spontaneous, beginning with three friends from Bahrain and later, a surprise addition—an old friend from Khobar, known for his mischievous nature. What started as a simple plan to visit Tarut Island, just after Dammam, turned into an unexpectedly memorable journey. Despite the hot and humid weather, the desert landscape surprised us with patches of greenery, mangroves, and a picturesque seashore park. The journey was punctuated by delightful moments, with delicious food and tea adding rich flavors to our experience. One of the highlights was the visit to a heritage village, which evoked a deep sense of nostalgia. Surrounded by memories of chalkboards, old stereos, vintage cameras, Hero pens, and the lifestyle of the 80s and 90s, we were transported back in time. It was a trip that blended history, friendship, and the simple joys of life in a way we hadn’t anticipated.

Staying aligned with the majority is easy, but standing firm for the minority requires immense moral strength. This moral courage is essential for upholding one's dignity. In today's world, politics is fraught with divisions and widespread hatred. Humanity seems lost, and speaking up for the marginalized or voiceless has become increasingly difficult, as those in power often target dissenters. It requires immense moral strength to stand firm in solitude, especially when in the minority. This moral strength sustains a person's dignity. Strength in solitude is the courage to embrace and understand one's own company, to face inner challenges without the distraction of external influences, and to emerge more resilient and self-assured.

 The Arabs should show the guts to produce videos in English demonstrating the real stats and facts to debunk the "islamophobia built on false and fake narratives". To make Israel crimes supported, the zionists, imperialists, colonialists and now fascists coined and propagate the word terrorism too much to polarize and stop thinking justice. The responsibility definitely with the people initially targeted by then islamophobic elements. We have various books, articles, videos etc are available to support the truths. Only thing is to act and make the Muslims free from being attacked or tortured only because of the fake narratives. At this time, the world witness how much hatreds kills innocent humans around the globe. When Palestine is the truth, no one stops Israel which itself is an occupier and oppressor. When secularism and humanity prevails atleast on educational forums, it's high time gather conferences initiated by Arabs, and show the truths visually. Islam and it...

During my vacation, I was excited to spend time with my younger daughter, who is known for her naughtiness. True to her nature, she was very playful but also prone to crying over small things, sometimes for no apparent reason. I suspected she might feel like she wasn't getting enough attention. One day, I had to leave her at her grandpa's house due to an emergency. She continued her usual solitary games, running around the house. Later, she called me, crying and screaming because she accidentally knocked off a flower that her grandma had been carefully nurturing, hoping it would bear dragon fruit. The weather had been a bit rainy and windy, so I advised her not to say anything about the incident and to behave normally. Initially, she didn't agree, but I insisted to stop her crying. A week passed without any issues, and I returned home. On the last day, she called me again, this time laughing. Curious, I asked her what was so funny. She smiled, and her elder sibling explaine...

 In a small village, there lived a couple whose journey was marked by both love and turmoil. He loved her deeply, and they cared for each other genuinely. However, life was not without its challenges. They faced expulsion from his house early in their marriage, which forced them to rely on his job to move to various locations. Eventually, they welcomed a baby girl into their lives, and as time passed, they began to settle into a routine family life.Their aspirations led them to the Gulf, where they worked hard and saved enough to invest in their own land and house. Their dream gradually became a reality, but with time, the initial harmony started to show cracks. Frictions developed, yet another joy arrived with the birth of their second daughter. They continued to make adjustments, striving to maintain a semblance of normal family life.As they worked on building their home and saving for their children's education, the frictions escalated into doubts and suspicions. Close family me...

 Feeling failure 😭

In the journey of life, we all encounter moments that make us feel lonely, frustrated, or tense. These emotions can stem from personal challenges, family issues, or societal pressures, and it's important to remember that we can't always control what we feel. It was during one such time that a close friend offered me some valuable wisdom: "Yes, we can't control what to feel." This simple statement carried a profound truth. It reminded me that it's okay to experience difficult emotions; they are a natural part of being human. What matters most is how we cope with them. That's where the magic of friendship comes in. Having friends who understand and support you during these tough moments is like having a safety net for your mental well-being. Cross-cultural companions from various backgrounds enrich our lives, careers, and knowledge, providing diverse perspectives and fostering personal and professional growth. Their unique insights and experiences help us na...

  As the sun sets on another day, we find ourselves reflecting on the significance we've brought to the world. In a world that is constantly evolving, our ability to make a meaningful impact is a pursuit that resonates deeply with many. This essay explores the avenues through which we can find significance in our lives, focusing on social relevance, motivation, and the delicate balance between our professional lives, family responsibilities, and self-development.     One of the most profound ways to bring significance to the world is by making a positive impact on society. Social relevance can manifest in various forms, from volunteering for a local charity to advocating for global issues such as climate change or social justice. Our actions in the social sphere can ripple through communities, inspiring others to join the cause and effecting real change. To find significance through social relevance, one must identify their passion and align it with a purpose. Whether it'...

 The perception of progressiveness can vary among individuals and cultures. Some may view smoking and drinking as symbols of modernity, while others prioritize adhering to socio-moral guidelines. Progressiveness, in a broader sense, often involves embracing diverse perspectives and promoting social change while respecting ethical values. Once upon a time, in a bustling city named Ethica, lived two friends named Maya and Rohan. They were polar opposites in their outlook on progress and life's values. Maya, a young woman with an adventurous spirit, believed that embracing modern trends like smoking and drinking showcased progressiveness. On the other hand, Rohan, a man rooted in tradition, placed immense importance on adhering to socio-moral guidelines. As the years passed, Ethica saw a transformation. Skyscrapers pierced the sky, technology ruled every facet of life, and the city's pulse resonated with the beats of change. Maya fully embraced this transformation, frequently seen...

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